OVERCOME YOUR INSECURITY
"One of the greatest journeys in life is overcoming insecurity and learning to truly not give a shit."
The first thing you have to do is accepting insecurities that you have. You cannot fix something until you are not aware of it. You can either write all the things you are insecure about or say it loudly the insecurity that you have. When you accept that you have one, no one can use it against you.
For example, your insecurity is your weight. It will hurt you less when you accept your insecurity and say to the people that "I know I am overweight and I am working on it".
Catch the root cause
It is another way to overcome your insecurity by digging it deep down and getting to the root of the insecurity that you have caused. When you are able to fix the insecurity form the root then it will help you to overcome your insecurity.
For example, your insecurity is you weight. And when you dig deep down you found it, because of your daily routine and eating habits. When you fix these problem first you will automatically able to overcome the insecurity.
Stop comparing youself
Mainly insecurities aries when a person is comparing himself with other person. You should know that the person has got there due to his hardwork, discipline or work ethic, or may have not worked to reach there. But it meant to be their.
So, the best thing you can do instead of crying is comparing yourself with your past. This is how you progress in life.
Work on yourself
The best way to over insecurity is finding it and start constantly working on it. You will not see any results in day or weeks. You have to work on it constantly for months to achieve it and overcome your insecurity. Instance "If you are insecure about your weight then go to gym and start eating the right food" . If you have appearance insecurity then try practicing self-love by looking at yourself in the mirror and telling yourself that you are still perfect. If you are insecure about financial conditions start saving money and work hard to overcome your insecurity of financial status. It will take time but will get better with time.
Be grateful
Never compare yourself with other. Never feel arrogant or entitled to anything, instead you should be grateful that you have blessed with. Be grateful about at least 5 things daily and maintain your gratitude.
"Having insecurities is normal but ever let these insecurities come in your way of success". Work hard constantly for it and you will one day achieve it and overcome the insecurity.
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